RP Comfort Meme

hay... sorry to have been dead lately, I will try to get back in rp stuffs soon! I recently landed a job and I have been busy with that most of the time! Also deep in MM hell...

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I took kiyoko's version ! To clarify, I did not add anything!!!! The additional sections added are from KiyokoAmaya so don't credit me!!! If anyone is in need for the blank version you can look over here.

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RP Comfort Meme

A valuable meme for any role-player!
Come display your comfort levels so your role-play partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time!
While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your role-play partners!

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RP Basics

RP Methods
I am comfortable doing:

- Comment: 
✦ Chats: Its actually hard to get me into chats without like going afk/mia so I would be more suited for event rps... if its this method. I like using icons.
- Notes: 
- Forum: 
✦ Skype: I hardly log into Skype, but in some instances you can definitely get a hold of me. I am quite... terrible in keeping one on one convos alive though. I'm just awkward unless I'm very comfortable with you T v T
✦ Google Docs: I like docs! (although please remind me from time to time to reply!)
✦ Other: Twitter/FBchat : This is probably the best method to reach me (HC through twitter or DM), since I like the flexibility of being able to reply whenever I can!

OOC/Headcanoning/RP Planning Methods
(hc = headcanon, which is essentially saying our charas will do a thing/have done a thing without actually RPing it out in depth necessarily)

✦ Skype: yeah I think this would be a good place to HC!
- Google Docs: 
✦ Discord: I like here too.
✦ Twitter: my most preferred option!

Participants
I am comfortable with:

✦ One on one role plays: YISSSSSS all my hands paw to you.
✦ Up to three people: 
✦ Up to four people: 
✦ Five or more people:
✦  As big as possible: 

I have gotten used to like big event RPs, usually its divided to manageable groups but I am generally flexible with number of rps! (as long its systematic and everyone is timely), I like personal one on one rps too.

RP Style 

I am all right with:
✦ Lit/Para: I guess I am alright with para rp although i have limited knowledge with words and vocabulary so i get a little nervous when writing T v T
✦ Script: I'm quite alright with it, I think im rather used to like... half lit, half para 6 7 9 ? haha

Post Length
I usually write about:

✦ One or two sentences: 
✦ One or two paragraphs: 
✦ Two to five paragraphs: 
- More than five paragraphs: 
- A few pages worth: 

I'm a terrible writer gah.

I am comfortable role-playing with people who write:

✦ One or two sentences: 
✦ One or two paragraphs: 
✦ Two to five paragraphs: I think for me my limit is here, I do enjoy reading the rp but I doubt I can deliver equal quality to my rp partner bc I am not good/not creative with words so I tend to burn out when it is lengthy. I do try my best to deliver though!
- More than five paragraphs: 
- A few pages worth: 

RP Speed 
I usually reply:

✦ ASAP (within minutes) after my partner's post: I usually reply HCs immediately!
✦ within an hour: this is leaning toward to para rp!
✦ within the same day: If I have things to do
✦ within the same week: If I get busy, but usually it never gets this far unless I burned out, or got busy!
- within the same month: 
- longer than a month:
✦ at random/variable times: Yeah, this varies between people I rp with, some I initially reply faster, and some I do reply late (it really depends on my comfort for the other and like where my current attention span stands ahhaa sob)

I expect my partner to reply: 

✦ ASAP (within minutes) after my partner's post: well if I am quick to reply I expect the same (?) speed, unless the person is doing something or is busy I don't mind waiting a few. It also applies to chat RP where its tick-tock moments! 
✦ within an hour: 
✦ within the same day: 
✦ within the same week: 
- within the same month: 
- longer than a month: 
✦ at random/variable times: those above are preferred but generally any time is fine as long they reply and my attention is still there or I would have just gotten lazy to continue if it drags for too long (sorry orz)

RP Reminders 

I am okay with getting reminders to reply to an RP:
✦ when I've mentioned I got something going on irl: 
✦ when there is a deadline for the RP submission: 
✦ after 5 or 10 or 15 minutes:
✦ after an hour: 
✦ within the same day: 
✦ the next day:
✦ if I haven't replied in a full week:
✦ if I haven't replied in more than one week or longer:

Generally okies with being reminded bc I'm forgetful and wheresmyattentionspan, so please don't be afraid to remind me!

I tend to remind people to reply to an RP:

✦ when there is a deadline for the RP submission:
✦ after 5 or 10 or 15 minutes:
✦ after an hour: 
✦ within the same day:
✦ the next day:
✦ if you haven't replied in a full week: 
✦ if you haven't replied in more than one week or longer:

Depending on the person. Usually I dont mind if they take a while, but if anything I would be sure to poke up a reminder! Sometimes I'm also annoying to remind people to reply, usually to close frunds.

Role-play Requests
I like getting requests from:

✦ Anyone and everyone at any time! - Please don't be afraid to poke me up and bother me all day/night to rp with you. Sometimes I just need to be the one nudged first.
✦ When I ask for role-plays.
✦ From friends and acquaintances.
- From friends only. 

Corrections 
I am comfortable getting corrections when:

✦ I missed something in your/someone else's post: Yes, please tell me if I have made a mistake!!
✦ I missed something about your/someone else's character: And ofc do correct me if I have gotten anything wrong too!
✦ It's realistic/factual: I am generally okies with this, I love learning new things, its always good to learn new things through rp, provided there is a fact/realistic touch to it?? We are all here to learn!
- Other:
- Never :

Expectations 
I expect my RP partner to:

- have read my character app before we RP: 
✦ read as much of my character app as is reasonable to go on before we RP: I think its expected to learn about the character before RP, to kind of get a feel of how the OC behaves, and their history! And also to see if they would interact well! If not, what are profiles for xD
✦ read more of my character app as it becomes relevant/necessary:

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Romantic Relationships
** Important: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn't be abandoned for a fictional on either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance!

Shipping
I am comfortable shipping my characters:

- Never. 
- Our character know each other deeply.
✦ Our character know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player: Yeah! I think generally this is the best of both worlds, if I am not comfortable with the person I would definitely feel v strange to RP let alone ship with ahaha;; 
✦ Only if the role-player and I plan it: only certain people > v <
✦ It depends on the character: Yep truly!! I have had moments of instant shipping but that is usually quite mutual and casual (with my beloved darling) but there are times I truly love taking the slow step to shipping, there is really no speed for shipping really, when it happens it happens ehehe.

(think of this as a PSA) >>I think alot of people think I ship very easily, and probably has 123516723 otps but I really don't although I may seem like the kind. I only have a handful of ships I can truly call mine.

If you want to ship with my characters:

- Talk to me about it from the start: 
✦ Talk to me about it once our characters know each other: 
✦ Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other: 
✦ Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging:

Communication is key for me I suppose, I am most likely alright with anything as long as the character go well together > v <)b

Speed
When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

(v = refer down)
v Swift as lightning! 
v Fast, but not super fast.
v Happens in about three months.
v Slow and steady wins the race.
v Slugs know what's up!
✦ My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen: Some admittedly ship 2 fast but only when I feel there is direct chemistry (I usually trust my gut HA.HA.), and of course with consent from the other mun! If not let me just silently ship it to myself with a sense of guilt and anxious the other does not feel the same way lololol. but, bottom line is I like all kinda relationships but there are only a few I am comfortable with shipping.

And like Kiho mentioned, it really also depends on partner too, and the time spent with the characters. If I were to continuously develop a relationship within five days, it won't be like considered as 'fast' because of time devotion compared to like a slow rp that takes a long time LOL. 

Smut
When my characters gets intimate, I prefer:

- To skip the act entirely. (usually het)
- To write the build up, but skip the act.  (HAHAHA we get lazy)
✦ To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise skip it. (o v o)
✦ To write the act all the way through. (sometimes.. sometimes. )

I can't say. It really depends on the comfort I have with the other, and certain partners like I just wanna skip the whole deal but some I want to go down to every detail (L A U  GH S) but aye generally depends on who I am with. I'd like to think these acts of intimacy are sometimes crucial and it tells alot about the characters, at least in my opinion. But of course, if its not needed, then I won't poke about it.

Romantic Artwork

- Do not post it at all without talking to me. (T A G. ME. YAAAA)
✦ Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.
✦ Post it if it is kisses.
- Post it if it is much more. (if its what I think it is then I'm all for NOOOOOs I want to keep these exclusive and private !)
- Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!
- Do not post where I can see it, but draw what you like!

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Dramatics
** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!!

Violence
When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

✦ I'm fine with verbal arguments! As long as they're IC, ofc
✦ Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.
✦ Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.
✦ Violence, such as stabbings.
✦ Beyond violence, such as torture and more: 

Generally alright with all this provided that I am aware what is happening and I allow it? I think also depends on the situation but usually I'm all good for violence etc, although if you kill your character canonly i will most likely murder you *sideeyes someone!!!* But yeah if you need me to describe how gruesome or violent it is I gladly will /laughs/

If you are going to do something violent, please:

✦ Talk to me about it first: yaaaa. 
- Surprise me!

Dramatic Artwork

- Do not post any dramatic scenes that that happened between our characters.
✦ Talk to me about it before posting! - All the better to discuss or warn first before posting yea?  
✦ Post what you like!   

Other 

Touching
I am okay with my characters being touched if:

v It's not romantic/sexual.
v It's not violent.
v It's something that usually happens (e.g.: shaking hands when you meet someone).
✦ You check with me first.
^ It depends on the character:  Check with me first.

 General Artwork
I am fine with art being done of my characters:

✦ if it's IC:
✦ if you don't know me/barely know me: As long as its IC!
✦ if you are my friend: 
- if you ask me first: don't need to ask eheheh i like surprises but ofc gotta keep IC yea
- only if it's a finished/polished piece)

 Triggers

None. I'm pretty chill with all kinds of things so dw ^^

 Crack
When it comes to crack, I'm okay with:

✦ crack in general:  AS LONG AS ITS DONE MODERATELY, and you know when to take things seriously. Crack brings alot of silliness and it brings joy but its generally quite off-putting and tiring for me if it gets very excessive aha.
✦ crack-shipping: I'm actually okay with crackshipping because I kinda see like OC having routes like otome games LOL i like seeing the possibilities of a character ending up with another person, but as long its not canon! And if the other person is okay with keeping it as crack ^P^ There are also times where like crack becomes canon and that is also kinda fun !

Thank you for reading aiyo~!